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My guess would be they are avoiding the pain of their late-spouses memory or they are being pressured by their new insecure girlfriend to take them down. True story. Your past influences your present and your future. So here is some legit advice: just as with any relationship, seeking the approval of those closest to your mate is an important task, try to tread a little lighter while on their familial turf.

Without being disingenuous, ask them about her. What was she like? What do they miss? What was she good at? What kind of a mother was she? Alright, so we have a request. You can ask via e-mail , Twitter , Facebook , or in the comments and we will answer here on the blog a-la Dear Abby , we promise our responses will be constructive and non rant-like. My new husbands wife died from cancer and her final days were spent in the bed that we sleep in.

In fact, she died in it. My husband says the bed cost too much to buy a new one. What should I do? He brought my lover back!!!!!!!!!!!! I worked with the right person that brought my husband back. I am thankful …. All my attempts was never in vein, I contacted via Robinsonbuckler h o t m a i l. Does anybody have advice on what to do with a widow on her last night in her marital home? My friend unexpentantly lost her husband just over a year ago. She has now sold their home and is moving into something smaller.

I am going to spend her last night in her marital home and am sure it will be emotional. Any advice? I see that this is a very old blog but still, I am in need of some direction and you all seem very well versed in this specific situation. So, I am a divorcee x 2 both times it was due to infidelity on their parts, the first time we had been together for 17 years and a wonderful marriage and 2 beautiful children and the 2nd lasted only 3 hellish years, thankfully God did NOT allow children to be created.

So I have been single for the past 5 years and have always felt like one of my purposes in life is to be a Wife, even though I was robbed from it twice, I still believe Love exists and am ready for it. Yes, you guessed it, I have met a Widower and he has stolen my heart. So, only 2 months after her death, he and I met. He has had many ups and down for the past 6 months but all-in-all we have gotten through them all.

I am irrevocably in love with this man, he is everything I have prayed for in a mate. He loves God more than anything and desires to serve him with his whole heart, as do I. We have many many things in common but there are a few things that cause me concern and I am asking for a little direction from those of you that may have some answers to help me.

Am I being foolish, or is this something that is normal behavior? Could someone please help! Thanks, and God Bless- Tricia. I recently dated a widower. His wife, God rest her soul, passed away 16 months ago. I am 43 and he is 53, with 2 grown sons. I have no family of my own and I have never been married.

We only dated for a short time but he is the most amazing man and I like him very much. After each date, he has been consumed with guilt. He thought that he was ready but he feels like he is cheating. Thankfully, he is engaging with services to deal with his grief. My heart goes out to him in this situation and I completely understand his feelings. I have left it open for him to contact me sometime in the future, when he is ready. My question is, is this a waste of time?

Will I always just be a reminder of a time when he was consumed with grief and guilt? After spending hours searching the internet about how to get my lover back i was glad that i contacted DR. Without wasting much time i would like to write out the details of DR. DODO whose details has done a lot of people a huge favor, via email: drdodotemple gmail. Are you poor and you want to be rich without any human scarifies? Do you want spiritual power of any kind?

Do you want have promotion in your place of work? Do you want to have children? It has nothing to do with insecurity. It has to do with respect. What other group of women do you know that have to sit with a smile on their face and be supportive while listening to people go on about someone their husband or boyfriend was intimate with? Really think about it? Would you like it? Would you feel valued and respected? If it is not appropriate in a divorced situation then it is not appropriate in a deceased spouse situation.

Family photos are appropriate but couple and other intimate photos are not. If there are children still living at home they can have photos up of their mother in their rooms. First of all, how can you compare a divorce with losing a loved one? Ashy, as I read the original post, your comment and the others here, it seems to me that few are willing to see the hurts and assurances both widowers and divorcees need and accept them both as legitimate.

In any case, there was no suggestion in the opener that the lady chose her divorce, so that attack seems harsh. In truth, it is far too easy for us to take sides with the grief we are most familiar with. I think he has probably failed to fully appreciate their needs in this, and since he is the only parent they have still living, he needs to be very keen to give them appropriate time.

Also, pictures are symbols and what a symbol means varies greatly from person to person. I would almost say those dealing with divorce and those dealing with the death of a spouse may be very incompatible, but in any case there are great hurdles they either cross together or that otherwise impede their progress in picking up the pieces and building a new life together—one that has both meaningful continuity with the past as well as giving significance to the new people in their lives.

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Just keeping ALL the pictures out is not speaking volumes to her that he is ready to make her his number one and make room for what lies ahead together, nor did she make any reference that she keeps pictures out to greet him when he visits her house. Nevertheless, the widower here needs no attacks hurled his way whichever category he is in, but they will have to be able to work it out—relationships are full of communication and compromises. If they one day continue toward marriage, they will probably need to find some neutral territory to call home where they can both put out select pictures that honor the past without constantly bringing up former marriages that are now ended, whether by death or divorce.

The important thing is that both of them continue to communicate and work together through whatever challenges and hurts they have as they build together. I believe life is for the living and the present is all we have, but there should be a healthy balance and mutual respect.

She will always be in your heart, and that is a good thing. Bringing flowers to the cemetery on the anniversary is OK, but talking constantly about her is not OK. It is very simple. If you are truly ready and willing to love again, give the respect and consideration to the new girlfriend or wife that you would have wanted her to give to you, had you been the one in her shoes. And to the women that are involved with men that got stuck in the past and have chosen to live for and with the dead, I wrote this poem to you.

If not you have no ideal what you are talking about. It has nothing to do with disrespect or a divorce a divorce is a definitely different situation then being deceased check yourself before you wreck yourself how can somebody be jealous of a dead person give me a break. I moved in with my widowed boyfriend and his kids ages 14 and 12 both girls.

I still send them birthday cards, Christmas cards etc. The children are grown up and have left the home. Thanks for any advice! You realize therefore considerably with regards to this matter, produced me personally consider it from a lot of various angles. Your own stuffs nice. At all times deal with it up! Really bad at you one of my emotions I hold on to the past and try to avoid negative emotions. I was set on a date with a young widower and after a few weeks I went to his house for dinner.

The picture of his late wife was there to welcome me! Befriended him on Facebook and there were hundreds of pictures of her. This kind of behavior seems to attract codependent women who will try to fix the guy…. I was shocked when I heard him say this I was sitting right there when he said this to his friend! I want the world to know a great man that is well known as Dr Mack, he has the perfect solution to relationship issues and marriage problems.

The main reason why i went to Dr Mack was for solution on how i can get my husband back was because in recent times i have read some testimonies on the internet which some people has written about Dr Mack and i was so pleased and i decided to seek for assistance from him, which he did a perfect job by making my husband to come back to me and beg for forgiveness.

I will not stop publishing his name on the net because of the good work he is doing. I think this is great to have this forum… I have been dating a widow for 18 months. His wife died over 4 years ago, to make matters worse she had two children from a previous relationship and died after her 4th child was 8 months old. She was addicted to prescription meds.

With all that being said, she left my bf now a widow, single parent and struggling financially. We dated while living in two different cities, after 8 months of dating he asked me to move in and I accepted. After being divorced for many years I was ready to on such a level where I thought this was the man I would spend the second part of my life with. When I moved in, I was expected to attend the same church him and his wife were members of. When the grandmother d-wife mother would call not often, he would drop everything and go have dinner with the grandmother and kids.

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I helped provided and supported his children in many ways, baseball, football, and basket ball games. Pick up the 4 yr old from school, whatever was needed. His 12 yr old son had a hard time with this and displayed a daily dose of disrespect. I tried to be understanding, empathetic and compassionate towards everyone especially the kids.

He still receives mail at the house as if she pays a bill. He holds onto her wedding bands. There were no boundaries, no consequences and no room for me. I felt like I was living in the shadows of a dead woman. It angers me that this woman left 4 kids behind due to an addiction and I can do all of these things, be the caregiver, provider, maid, suzy home maker yet I am nothing. After 18 months I ended the relationship. It is very hard dating a widow especially when there are children involved.

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Yet you can choose how you want to spend your life, you can either continue living in the past which no longer exists or you can choose to live again. Depending on what you choose there are life modifications, If you choose to stay in a grieving period, you will be alone. If you choose to live you will need to set boundaries with respect.

Of course the d- wife or husband is never forgotten and the kids serve as a constant reminder. I would never date another widow again. My boyfriend still refers to his late wife as his wife. This makes me feel like he still considers himself married.

I find it incredibly hurtful. I have been widowed for around 10 years, my bf just over 2. We have been together for 2 years but friends for over 30 complicated situation. I can cope with the photos around the house…. I have no choice really if I want to be with him and we have got through various other issues that have raised their heads with communication.

For some reason, I shy away from raising this. I feel completely crazy over this. I am in the same situation. I am widowed 10 years after 36 years of marriage. Difference in my story is that I am a nurse and know of grief process and have embraced his wife. We talk about our spouses and call them by name. It has been a year and I am scared things will not change.

I am 65, not getting younger and do have health issues. Afraid of my timeframe. His attitude is life will work itself out. This is really tougher than I ever would have imagined. All I wanted was to be loved, have a partner, travel, and live out the rest ofy days. This has been very stressful. His marriage with his late wife was his second marriage with his first marriage of 15 years ending in divorce. There are 2 adult daughters from that first marriage who had a very loving relationship with his late wife and with whom I have an excellent relationship.

Additionally I adore his 2 grandchildren, and have been openly welcomed by his extended family. She was on a transplant list but complications ensued and she passed prior to lungs being available for her. I also have elderly parents, siblings, etc. I have asked and invited him to meet them many times and always receive polite declines despite my expressing to him that him meeting my family is important to me. He has also met none of my friends. Attempts to discuss these do not net concrete answers, rather evoke him shutting down.

But he seems not feel that … There are too much to share about my marriage here.. Not only photos. Maybe I picked the wrong guy!! I am really pleased with this service. When I nearly lost James in one of our stupid,fights he broke up with me ,I thought I had lost everything. Osondu,how he helped to bring back ex lover back. I quickly emailed him.

He performed a very good service for a person in true need. Osondu email him for any kind of help He is very reliable. I moved in with my boyfriend and his 3 children 4 months ago. We are engaged now and l feel like the other woman sometimes. Have you talked with him about this? After ten years I do wonder why he would be bringing her up as much as you say he does. Maybe he has insight into this dynamic? He seemed to understand perfectly that I wanted it to feel like my home, too.

There are still a few family pictures up. Pasted Loved Ones should be able to Remain any where the surviors choose to have them..

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Should We grow into marriage, and that Our Daughter will share them Both! She had a long and heinous struggle and suffered tremendously. Last winter I started having prints made of places we went on vacation to and several of her, and her and I, and have one of us in the kitchen, and have added 4 to the one I had in the living room, along with as I said, shots of places we went to.

This was my life with her. I also have had couple in the bedroom for many years. But then I saw the movie Last Vegas, and the Robert DeNiro character plays a widower about a year out, like me, and he has pictures of his late wife all over his apartment. I should also mention that I have no interest in dating or even further, living under the same roof with anyone. Am I going crazy? You are not going crazy, brother. I lost my wife of 23 years last summer July and dating divorced, insecure women jealous of the deceased, and any memory we have of our wives and us sharing this thing called life looses its shine fast.

The barrage of questions. The pop psychology that these women run on you. They bash their ex, a guy we never met, and we have nothing bad to say about our late wives except that we miss them. They have venom and bitterness. We have memories of real love, valleys, mountains, and boredom.

I would rather live my life remembering my best friend and the man she allowed me to become, remaining in the company of friends, than have discussions about erasing her memory to make a divorcee happy. Widows are coolest for guys like us. They understand. We share the same walk between the world of memory and the world of right now. Knowing how the loss feels, as we do, we need to find somebody that respects the loss. I doubt I could ever work with a divorcee. But on an up note, every day is one day closer to the day we both see our wives again.

Dan, well said! I do think, or hope, there are women other than widows who could be good and understanding partners, but I do think takes an extremely open and understanding and it also takes a lot of really strong communication. Best to you both as you navigate the complicated waters of grieving after losing someone you love so deeply. I am a divorced woman. There are many circumstances why people divorce…..

Everytime I look at pictures of past Christmases or birthdays I remember good times that were had, and I have kept photos of my ex husband to be given to my kids when they want them. Grief comes in many forms. When I first starting dating my partner he had a picture of his deceased partner on his living room wall. A short time after we started dating I noticed the picture was gone. We have been together now for 3 years and have bought a house together. Just recently, when moving totes around at his cabin, I came across photos of her I will call her P and him D and cards that were saved from her to him and from him to her, she will have been gone 6 years come this December.

I said either him or her mother. I kick myself now for looking at the cards and reading them. Wished I had left well enough alone. P married one of his best friends. I can see why she did, he is a very special man. It has really affected me seeing those totes. Not only the totes but also when cleaning up the camping trailer I came across one of her journals. I put it back in the drawer it was in, mentioned it to my partner in passing…but it is still there.

After coming home from the cabin I happened to notice the pictures were in the vehicle. He kind of hid them in the vehicle. After seeing the cards I realized that she was his soul mate, his other half. This is a man who loves deeply, to his core. Why do I now feel like I am living in a shadow? Am I being oversensitive? He calls me sexy and have always felt very special when he does…. Not always. Although we may move forward with our lives and make space for new people and new experiences, we often remain connected with those who die an different ways.

This is especially true if there are children involved as the woman who died will always be their mother and a part of their family, whether she is alive or not. And that it is normal to hold onto notes and photos, this does not mean that he is unable to move forward and have perfectly healthy relationships in the here and now. I agree that divorce can cause very deep and significant grief, regardless of the circumstances, and that grief comes in many forms. I disagree, though, that having photographs of a deceased spouse around the house indicates you have no business entering into a new relationship.

This is especially true if there are children involved. In these instances it would not be beneficial for the belongings or photographs of the deceased to be secreted away to a private room. The person who died is still a part of the family and should be recognized and honored as such. This may be one main difference between the grief or divorce and the grief of a death.

When the person is dead, photographs, memories, belongings, etc are all that people have left to remember them by. Hi My best friend passed away March January she gave birth to their son this boy was a miracle baby she was told she could not have kids. She dealt with depression on the night of her death she supposedly was on antidepressants and sleep meds. He has told all of us never to show pictures of our best friend or refer to her as mommy near his son so the boy does not become confused.

The little child calls the new woman mommy. He has also told us he does not want to see us or even let us visit with our best friends baby so we do not confuse him. Also, he has told the sister of his dead wife the same thing. How do we deal? This little boy is all we have as a memory that connects us to her. I think you are a little hard on this woman insecurities, you do ask yourself these questions at the beginning of a relationship, just wondering, is this normal, and I think the answer to her is yes.

Not sure that makes her such a giant shrew. I am dating a man who was married 38 years also. I have no problem with the pictures around, and also no problem if they talk about her. Of course! However, I am younger than he and divorced, have 3 kids of my own and am struggling with the complexity. It never occurred to me that I was giving up having a family. Is that so wrong? My ex died. And I also have a nice one of my spouse and I in the hallway and on my bedside table, to make him know I have moved on emotionally. He is also widower and has basically done the same.

I think he has two in his house. One is a really cute one of his ex and his son.

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